Meeting someone from the internet for a workout requires trust. And trust should be earned, not assumed.
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Whether you're using Sweatty or any other platform to find training partners, these safety practices are non-negotiable.
Before You Meet
1. Verify Their Identity
Never meet someone who hasn't verified their identity. At minimum, check for:
- A verified profile badge — meaning the platform has confirmed their ID
- A real photo — not a stock image or celebrity picture
- Consistent information — name, age, and location should make sense
Sweatty's government ID and live selfie check is in build and not yet active in the pilot, so a Sweatty profile today has confirmed a phone number, not an ID. If a platform doesn't verify users, consider that a red flag.
2. Tell Someone Where You're Going
Before every first session, tell a trusted friend or family member:
- Who you're meeting (share their profile)
- Where you're meeting (exact venue)
- What time you'll be done
- A code word that means "call me immediately"
3. Research the Venue
Choose a location you know. A busy public gym, a popular park, or a well-lit running track. Never agree to:
- Someone's home gym (first few sessions)
- Isolated outdoor locations
- Indoor venues without other people present
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During the Session
4. Share Your Live Location
Turn on live location sharing with a trusted contact. Most phones have this built in:
- iPhone: Find My → Share My Location
- Android: Google Maps → Location Sharing
⚠️ In-app live location sharing is in build and is not yet active in the Sweatty pilot. Use your phone's own location sharing, above.
5. Keep Your Phone Charged and Accessible
Your phone is your lifeline. Keep it:
- Above 50% battery when you arrive
- In your pocket or armband (not locked in a locker)
- With emergency contacts on speed dial
6. Trust Your Instincts
If something feels off — leave. You don't owe anyone an explanation. Signs to watch for:
- They look significantly different from their profile
- They pressure you to go to a different location
- They make inappropriate comments
- They seem intoxicated or erratic
A genuine training partner will understand if you need to reschedule.
7. Know the Emergency Protocol
Set up your phone's own emergency features before you need them — Emergency SOS on iPhone, Emergency SOS on Android — and add your emergency contacts there.
⚠️ Sweatty's in-app SOS is in build and is not yet active in the pilot. Do not rely on it. Use your phone's emergency features instead. In the UK, dial 999 or 112.
After the Session
8. Rate Your Partner Honestly
After every session, rate your partner on:
- Safety — did they behave appropriately?
- Punctuality — did they show up on time?
- Overall experience — would you train with them again?
Honest ratings protect the community. A partner with consistently low safety scores gets flagged for review and eventually removed.
9. Report Any Concerns
If something felt wrong — even if you can't pinpoint exactly what — report it to safety@sweattyapp.com. A person reads every report; in-app reporting is in build and not yet active in the pilot.
In-app blocking is in build and not yet active in the pilot. Until it is, stop replying and email us, and we act on it by hand.
The Safety Checklist
Print this or screenshot it for your first few partner sessions:
- Told a friend where I'm going and with whom
- Meeting at a public, well-lit venue
- Live location sharing enabled
- Phone charged above 50%
- Emergency contacts saved
- Know how to use your phone's emergency SOS
- Know the local emergency number
Sweatty's Safety-First Approach
Sweatty is in open pilot, and safety copy that overstates itself is worse than none. So, plainly, what exists today:
Live now
- Phone verification — a real, current mobile number, confirmed by code
- Trust scores — visible on every profile, built from completed sessions and ratings
- Reporting — you can report a partner, and reports are read
In build, not yet active — do not rely on these
- ID and selfie verification — in build, not yet active in the pilot
- Real-time location sharing with emergency contacts — in build, not yet active in the pilot
- One-tap SOS — in build, not yet active in the pilot
Sweatty is two people, not a 24/7 moderation desk. Until the controls above are live, the checklist at the top of this article is what keeps you safe — not the app.
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